5 Amazing Ways To Ask A Guy Out...
5.Just Ask Him..... Ask him out directly.
If all else fails, just ask him! This may not be the cutest idea or the most creative but it’s certainly been proven effective time and time again. Gather your courage, compose yourself and simply walk up to him. You can either start a regular conversation first or you can jump in at the deep end and ask him. It doesn’t matter, just so long as you ask. It’s best if you have a clear idea of where you’d like to go on a date first, this way you’re less likely to get flustered and mess up your words. He’ll love that you had the courage to ask him outright and he’ll probably find your blush when you do cute too. You may be tempted to beat around the bush, or mention going out in a vague way that he could miss. When you text him, say that you want to go out with him and ask him if he would be interested in doing that. It’s important that he knows you are asking him out
4.Pay details to his interest in the conversation.
Text back and forth with him for a while to see how the conversation goes. If he constantly gives short answers or takes a long time in between, he may not be interested in you. You don’t want to go straight to asking him out without having an idea whether or not he will say yes
3. Don’t Worry About the Outcome too Much
The key to asking-him-out courage is to not view it as a make-or-break situation. “It’s important to recognize that if we ask out our crush and he says no, we’re still going to be fine] I think is important in understanding [that] it’s not because you’re not good enough. It’s not because there’s something wrong with you. It’s just because he wants something different, and that’s okay.
When you go into it with that mindset, there’s less nervousness; there’s less riding on it.”
2. Be Confident
We get it: asking a guy out can be super scary....The problem is, if all you do is sit around thinking about how scared you are to make a move, you might miss your chance! To give you a much-needed confidence boost, we’re going to let you in on a little secret: most guys are OK with you taking the lead!
1.Starting the Conversation
Try breaking the ice before you ask him out. Send him a simple greeting to get the conversation started. If you haven’t talked to him before, remind him who you are and how you met. Say you’ve been excited to talk to him again. If you have talked before, just greet him the same way you would any other time
People can’t always respond to texts right away, so if your first text is you asking him out, you’ll start to freak out if he doesn’t respond quickly. Talking for a while first helps ensure that he is paying attention to his phone.
If you have him talking already, there’s a better chance that he’ll respond positively to you asking him out.
If you ask him out without any warning, he might be caught off guard and say no.
